good questions for reflecting on our relationship

I love having a structured way to learn more about each other and learn strategies to prevent or deal with issues before they happen. So here are some good questions to talk through:

1. top three things that are important in a successful marriage?
2. Who are the three most significant people in your life?
3. how much money is ok to spend before you need to tell your spouse?
4. where do we  ourselves in 5-10 years?
5. family planning methods and child spacing*
6. household responsibilities
7. Would we get a joint account? 
8. Do you owe money that your partner doesn’t know about?  
9. budget worksheet
10. write a love letter to our partner that described in detail how much you love them
11. ways to talk to your spouse in times of frustration

NOTE: From a purely biological perspective, it is best to have your babies before you are 35 years

Read more: http://www.babycentre.co.uk/preconception/activelytrying/ageandfertility/#ixzz29RiYbRf2

From a purely biological perspective, it's best to try to start a family before you're 35.


Read more: http://www.babycentre.co.uk/preconception/activelytrying/ageandfertility/#ixzz29RiYbRf2

From a purely biological perspective, it's best to try to start a family before you're 35.


Read more: http://www.babycentre.co.uk/preconception/activelytrying/ageandfertility/#ixzz29RiYbRf2