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Saturday, 19 January 2013

5.15 A.M TO 5.15 P.M WEDDING DAY TIMELINE

5.15 A.M:  ARISE AND SHINE:-)

6.30-7.30: Breakfast
7.30 a.m to 9.30a.m: PREPARATION(Hair, make up, dress) and getting ready PHOTOS

7.00 to 8.30: venue set up , all cars decorated - to be complete by latest 8.30

9.30: Departure of cars from decoration place
10.00- Arrival of groom's family to pick bride at bride's home

10.30 Departure for venue

11.00-12.30 CEREMONY
12.30-1.00: Photos with family

1.00- 2.20: LUNCH IS SERVED/ BRIDAL PARTY PHOTO-SHOOT

2.30-3.00- RECEPTION GRAND ENTRANCE and CELEBRATION

3.00-3.30 : ENTERTAINMENT and BRIDAL PARTY LUNCH

3.30-4.30: TOASTS, SPEECHES AND GIFTS

4.30-5.00 CAKE CUTTING CEREMONY

5.15 VOTE OF THANKS and CLOSING PRAYER 

5.30: BRIDE AND GROOM DEPARTURE, GUESTS LEAVE AT PLEASURE



Tuesday, 15 January 2013

PRAYER FOR BRIDES

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for my life!  Thank you for the many blessings you have given to me, most importantly the sacrifice of your son so that I may live with you in eternity!  Thank you for transforming my heart and for continuing the good work in me that you have prepared in advance.

Thank you for my fiancĂ© and the love that he has for me!  I am so excited about experiencing marriage and living out the rest of my life with a companion.  Please help me to remain in you as I learn how to balance my life and my commitment as a wife.  Teach me how to be the wife my soon-to-be-husband needs.  I pray that I am submissive and that I respect my husband as you call me to in your word!

I lay these things at your feet and ask that you guide our marriage and give us wisdom in handling every aspect of what you give us including: finances, sex, children, jobs, housing, family, friends, church and anything else that requires a decision or commitment!

I pray for protection over our marriage!  Please send angels to guard our relationship from the schemes of the enemy.  I ask, Lord, that you protect my fiancĂ© from temptations that may come.  Guard and protect his mind and his heart.  I pray the same for me, that you protect me from temptations and guard and protect my mind and heart.  Seal us and separate us from the ways of this world and help us to  keep you at the center of our marriage.

I pray that we would both desire each other passionately and desire to pray with each other daily!  Reveal your will for our lives and show us that we are a team working together to further your kingdom!

In Jesus Name AMEN!


A BRIDE'S PRAYER (auther unknown)

SOURCE

O, Father, my heart is filled with a happiness so wonderful that I am almost afraid. This is my wedding day, and I pray Thee that the beautiful joy of this day may never grow dim with years of regret for the new step I am about to take. Rather, may its memories become more sweet and tender with each passing anniversary.

Thou hast sent to me one who seems all-worthy of my deepest regard. May I prove indeed a helpmeet, a sweetheart, a friend, a steadfast guiding star among all the temptations that beset the impulsive hearts of men. Grant unto me the power to keep him ever true and loving as now.

Give me the skill to make home the best-loved place of all. Help me to make its glow shine further than any glare that would dim its radiance. Let me, I pray Thee, meet the little misunderstandings and cares of my new life bravely. Be with me as I start on my mission of womanhood, and keep my path from failure. Walk Thou with us, even to the end of our journey.

Father, bless my wedding day, hallow my marriage night, sanctify my motherhood—if Thou seest fit to grant me that privilege. And when all my youthful charms are faded, and the cares and lessons of life have left their touches, let physical fascination give way to the greater charm of blessed companionship. So may we walk hand in hand down the highway lighted by the sunshine that comes from living righteously, for time and for all E T E R N I T Y.

--Author unknown; one of Eileen Albertson's
handouts from her Marriage Class, BYU,
Winter semester, 196

Monday, 14 January 2013

Morning Prayer on my wedding day and after

PAPA,

Today is my wedding day!  It is new season of my life

 Thank you for enabling us to prepare for this day and to  work through a lot of particulars in our pre-marital counseling. May we always be a  part of a wonderful covenant community that will continue to teach us things directly and indirectly along your journey.

PAPA You say that I am Your workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works which You prepared for me to walk in (Eph 2:10).  Thank you for blessing me with a godly man to partner with in this life of good works. May You always be our first love!Empower us to be be a man and a woman of the Word. may we intentionally hide your Word be in our hearts that we may not sin against you.  May we talk  about your Word when we walk by the way, when we lie down, and when we rise up.

PAPA today is our first day of building a new family. You say that unless You build the house, we will be labouring in vain. Build for us!

You say that without a vision people perish. I pray that you may give us a solid vision. Empower and equip us to review these plans regularly together in light of the building code which is  Your Word. Empower and equip us to daily commit our plans to You, and to execute them with diligence.

PAPA, A blueprint is one thing, the building of the actual house quite another. May we not just start with high hopes, empower and equip us to be diligent  and do what it takes to see the vision You give to us materialize. Proverbs 21:5 reminds us that: “The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, but those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.”

PAPA You have promised to complete the good work You begun in us- being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."
Philippians  1:6

Empower  and equip him to love me and empower and equip me to respect him-"However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." Ephesians 5:33

Empower and equip me to be led by him. May I  always run other people’s input by him


Empower and equip me with an attitude of gratitude. Ps 103:1-2 tells us: “Bless the LORD, O my soul; and all that is within me, bless His holy name! Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all His benefits. Thank you for  forgiving our sins! Thank you for  crowning us with Your loving-kindness! Thank You for  satisfying our mouths with good things. May we bless you Lord throughout our day. 

Empower and equip me to be B's number one cheerleader. May my words, actions, and countenance  build *B* up and empower him to be the man You designed him to be. May he be more than he ever thought he could be! May I Never make fun of him or put him down,whether in public or in private. May I always demonstrate respect to *B* and build him up with my words.

Empower and equip me to be the wise woman who builds her house (Proverbs 14:1) and is the crown of my husband (Proverbs 12:4)  May the way I interact with *B* impact him positively. Let him be like the husband in Proverbs 31 whose heart safely trusts in his wife so that he can sit in the gates with the elders of the land. May my interactions never lead him to be  crawling off to a corner of the housetop just trying to get away.

Grow my sense of humor and my ability to laugh at things because "a merry heart does good, like medicine," (Proverbs 17:22) and will cure that continual dripping (Proverbs 27:15)



Empower and equip me for mundane tasks.  May I be wise and remember that dirty dishes are a sign of God’s faithful provision and they give thanks to Him as they clean them AGAIN.  2 Thessalonians 3:13 to “not grow weary in doing good.”

FOR TODAY 
This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. Psalm 118:24

WEDDING DAY QUIET TIME

Genesis 2:24,
 “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife; and they shall be one flesh.” (KJV)

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone?Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Ephesians 4:2
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love 

Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tender- hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. 

Romans 12:10
Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. —

Psalm 139:17,18
How precious to me are Your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand. —

He who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, it will be reckoned a curse to him. — Proverbs 27:14

Better to be patient than powerful; better to have self-control than to conquer a city. — Proverbs 16:32 (NLT)

Love believes all things, hopes all things. — 1 Corinthians 13:7

Love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire. — Song of Solomon 8:6

Greet one another with a kiss of love. — 1 Peter 5:14

God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. — Romans 5:8

Do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. — Philippians 2:4

If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. — Mark 3:25

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness. — James 3:17

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. — Ephesians 4:2

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. — Ephesians 5:21

Enjoy life with the wife you love all the days of your fleeting life. — Ecclesiastes 9:9

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my lover among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. He has taken me to the banquet hall, and his banner over me is love. — Song of Solomon 2:3,4

Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me. My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. — Song of Solomon 2:13,14

Live with your wives in an understanding way . . . and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life. — 1 Peter 3:7

Honor one another above yourselves. — Romans 12:10b


Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure . . . . — Hebrews 13:4a

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. — 3 John 2

Then Jesus told His disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. — Luke 18:1

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. — Philippians 4:6,7

The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. — James 5:16

He who covers over an offense promotes love, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends. — Proverbs 17:9

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear. — 1 John 4:18
I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine. — Song of Solomon 6:3

How blessed is the man who finds wisdom, and the man who gains understanding. — Proverbs 3:13

The ear of the wise seeks knowledge. — Proverbs 18:15b
Wise men store up knowledge, but with the mouth of the foolish, ruin is at hand. — Proverbs 10:14

A plan in the heart of a man is like deep water, but a man of understanding draws it out. — Proverbs 20:5

The Lord gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding — Proverbs 2:6

By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; and by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches. — Proverbs 24:3,4

Acquire wisdom; and with all your acquiring, get understanding. — Proverbs 4:7

Let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. — 1 John 4:7

Apart from Me you can do nothing. — John 15:5b

And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. — Paul in his letter to the Ephesians 3:17b-19

And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom He has given us. — Romans 5:5

 PRAY OVER
people attending
words of advice-shared at our wedding reception