My LOVE LANGUAGES
11 out of 22: Physical touch
8 out of 22: quality time
7 out of 22: receiving gifts
4 out of 22: words of affirmation
0 of 22: acts of service
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly,
very touchy.
Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the
arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love.
Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse
can be unforgivable and destructive.
Quality Time
In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like
full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is
critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down,
and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and
loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can
be especially hurtful.
Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism;
the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort
behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture
shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above
whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a
hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of
everyday gestures.
Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If
this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to
you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons
behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you
shattered and are not easily forgotten.
Acts of Service
Can helping with homework really be an expression
of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of
responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak
volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for
you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell
speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter
